Wagah Border's Chacha Pakistan Photo: ONLINE
In a country with a population of over 188.2 million people, a lot can go wrong, but a lot can go right too!
Here is a list of 23 things that make Pakistan home.
1. The men
We may belong to a patriarchal society, but not all men are alike. They don’t all suffer from the disease of misogyny. True gems like Abdul Sattar Eidhi, Ansar Burney and Imran Khan also exist in our society, individuals who play a pivotal role in the betterment of society.
2. The women
Contrary to the patriarchal outlook of Pakistan’s society, our women do more than just cook and clean. Women break barriers, they do the unthinkable. They win ICC matches against India – yup, they do.
3. The natural beauty
Calmness and serenity tends to take over the mind and soul when visiting places like the Swat Valley and the Karakoram Mountains.
4. The music
Pakistan’s very own version of pop/rock boy bands included the endlessly talented Junoon, Strings, Awaz and Vital Signs. And on the other hand there are Sufi and Qawali legends like Ustad Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, and Abida Parveen along with the multi lingual genius Madam Noor Jehan. How many other countries can boast the same set of musical talent?
5. The shows
Over the past couple of decades, the Pakistani drama industry has truly evolved. The writers revolve their stories around real life events or social problems that are relatable by most, if not all.
6. The fashion
The Pakistani fashion industry has been booming across the world, they have even made their way onto Hollywood ramps! I mean, it was our designer Rizwan Beyg from whom Princess Diana ordered dresses she had fallen in love with.
7. The weddings
Uncles, Aunts, Siblings, Cousins and Friends; a Pakistani wedding is grand vibrant affair.
Come hell or high water, our weddings are always elaborate and stretched over a period of at least 15 days. They are vibrant, loud and have a never ending supply of food. A Pakistani wedding is an experience you must have once in your life.
8. The food
Photo: HAFSAH SARFARAZ
Who can resist a plate of spicy nihari with a freshly made naan and a bottle of Coke? Life really doesn’t get any better. And that’s just ONE of the delicious dishes this gem of a country has to offer.
9. The humour in every situation
Whether our politicians are arguing on talk shows or a man riding a rickshaw with a real life teddy bear, we aren’t afraid to point fingers at ourselves and crack up.
10. The people
One doesn’t need millions to help others out; you just have to be Pakistani. We put others before ourselves, and even though we aren’t obligated, we go out of our way to cater to each other’s needs.
11. The abundance of talent
From a young age, we have been trained to work for what we want; nothing comes easily to the common man. Pakistanis living in Pakistan and abroad – privileged or not – strive through every struggle and come out stronger than ever.
12. The education
Pakistan currently has a literacy rate of almost 60 per cent, which is steadily rising. Our students avail opportunities and attend various delegations, representing our country in the best way possible.
13. Being resourceful is knowing the right people
In Pakistan, no task is too difficult. All you have to do is make sure you know a person with power and authority and voila, the sky’s the limit.
14. Nothing is spared from our critical analysis, even TV shows
An in depth analysis of the TV show Homeland.
Whether it’s a show or a lost match, Pakistanis critically analyse every situation; that lead to some very heated, but enjoyable dinner table conversations.
15. The architecture
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Pakistan is home to some of the oldest architectural remains including Mohenjodaro and Takht-i-Bahi. It is also home to modern buildings including the Centarurus Mall and Theatre in Lahore.
16. The truck art
Our truck art can literally define a Pakistani for a foreigner. It is colourful, funny, culturally rooted, bold and just… beautiful. That is Pakistan – in its truest, rawest forms.
17. Pakistan International Airline (PIA)
Jacqueline Kennedy, Ava Gardner, Stewart Granger, Zulfikar Ali Bhutto; are just few of the passengers PIA has had on board. PIA, despite its ups and downs, is a great source of pride for the nation.
18. The cricket team
We see their hard work, we see them pour their sweat and blood into each game, and sometimes that is not enough to win. Yet they never give up and their passion remains intact.
19. Boom Boom
The heartthrob of the Pakistani nation, Shahid Khan Afridi.
Shahid Afridi has been the nation’s heart throb. Irrespective of his unpredictably, each time he approaches the pitch, our eyes are glued to the screens, in anticipation of some boom boom!
20. The supporters
Clad in green jerseys, supporters of our cricket team can be seen playing out on the streets, everybody wanting to be Shoaib Akhtar or Shahid Afridi. Before every match, children paint their faces and we pray for our teams success, despite the love-hate relationship we have with our team. Whether we win or not, our hearts will thump with pride as soon as our team walks out and onto that field.
Photo: AP/Sani Maikatanga
Our sehris and iftaris are nothing short of a grand buffet. With glasses filled with cold water and Rooh Afza, and plates filled with fruit chaat and cholay, there isn’t anything more exhilarating than spending Ramazan in Pakistan. It is never the same anywhere else in the world.
Dil Bola Pakola (The heart screams Pakola)
On a blistering hot day, nothing is better than an ice cold bottle of Pakola to quench your thirst, putting your throat out of its misery. Yup, we have a green coloured soda here, and it tastes like Pakistan – amazing! Try it if you haven’t.
23. Top Pops
Childhood memories come back to life!
Top Pops were my favourite chips to munch on in school, and after a long break, they have relaunched! I just hope the toy whistle gift still comes in the packet.
It is easy to keep our focus on the flaws that exist in our nation, simply because they are constantly revealed. But no matter the circumstances, there are certain things that are irreplaceable in our motherland. The calmness I feel as soon as I land in Karachi, the strong odour while leaving the baggage claim area, the first bite of a delicious chicken cheese roll from Hot & Spicy, the beautifully lit up buildings, the dangerously reckless driving and lots more insignificantly significant things, make Pakistan home. Don’t take it for granted.
HAPPY PAKISTAN DAY!
Pakistan is not a recent figment but a continuation of 5000 years of history: quite sheepishly, I admit, that I am an adherent of the view held by many historians that the Indus valley and the Indus man were always somewhat distinct from their brethren across the Indus. I do not wish to venture into this debate but I am proud as an inheritor of Harappa, Mohenjo-Daro and Mehrgarh (not strictly in this order) and this makes me feel rooted and connected to my soil as well as ancient human civilizations and cultures.
It also makes me happy that no matter how much the present-day media hysteria about Pakistan (and “natives” in general) diminishes my country and region, nothing can take away this heritage and high points of my ancestral culture. Pakistan is not just Indus civilization – it is a hybrid cultural ethos: the Greek, Gandhara, the central Asian, Persian, Aryan and the Islamic influences merge into this river and define my soul – how can I not be proud of this?
I simply love the Pakistani people – they are resilient, diverse and most entrepreneurial. They have survived calamities, famines, upheavals, injustices and exploitation and yet, by and large, retain a sense of humour. I am not naïve to say that they are totally free of the various bondages of history but they display remarkable entrepreneurial and creative potential. Most of them are “real” and rooted and yet not averse to modernity.
There is an urban revolution taking place in parts of Punjab and Sindh and the drivers are neither the state nor external donors but the people themselves. The private sector has even contributed to build an airport. There is an ugly side as well: the absence or predatory activities of the state (e.g. Karachi) has also provided a breeding ground for mafias but this is not a unique Pakistani phenomenon. From LA to Jakarata, such groups operate within the folds of urbanization.
I am proud of my people who have proved themselves in all spheres and countries – whether it is Professor Abdus Salam, the Nobel Laureate or Shazia Sikander, the miniaturist of international fame or Mukhtaran Mai who has proved her mettle in giving a tough time to forces of oppression.
There is inordinate focus on Pakistani madrassahs, the pro-Taliban groups and the violent jihadis. How representative are these groups? Only Pakistanis know that such groups are marginal to the mainstream attachment to and practice of religion. The rural folk are still steeped in Sufi worldview and many versions of Islam exist within the same neighborhood. Of course there is manipulated curse of sectarian violence but that mercifully is not embedded despite the attempts of big external players and the octopus-like state agencies.
Ordinary Pakistanis, such as me, value their Islamic beliefs, are God fearing and follow what is essentially a continuation of the centuries old traditions of spirituality that survives in the folk idiom, in the kaafis of Bulleh Shah, and in the verses of Bhitai and Rahman Baba. Our proverbs, day-to-day beliefs are all mixed and laced with history, oral tradition, Sufi lore and of course Islamic simplicity. It is another matter that there are individuals who want to hijack this thread and impose their nonsense on us – but we as a people have resisted that and shall continue to do so. After all we inherited the confluence of ancient religions and practices.
Pakistan is where Buddha taught and Taxila shined, and where Nanak preached and the great saints – Usman Hajweri, Fariduddin Ganj Shakar, Bhitai and Sarmast – brought people into the fold of Islam. Despite the revisionist, constructed history by extremists in India, the sword had little to do with Islam’s rise in this region.
The Natural Beauty
Well the spirituality of my homeland is not just restricted to the intangible belief systems. It also reflects in the splendors of Mother Nature. From the pristine peaks in the north to the mangroves of the Indus delta, Pakistan blends climates, geographies, terrains in its melting pot. Within hours of leaving an arid zone, one enters into a fertile delta. And again a few more hours put you right in front of otherworldly mountains. The deserts of Cholistan radiate the moonlight and the surreal wildernesses of Balochistan are nothing but metaphors of spiritual beauty.
Where else can I experience the aroma of wet earth when the baked earth cracks up to embrace every droplet and where else can one find a Jamun tree with a Koel calling the gods? An everlasting impression on my being shall remain the majestic sunrise at the Fairy Meadows amid the Karakorams and the melting gold of Nanga Parbat peak. I love this country’s rivers, streams and the fields where farmers testify their existence with each stroke, each touch of earth. I cherish trees that are not just trees but signify Buddha’s seat or the ones in graveyards nourishing the seasonal blossoms.
Yes, I love the aromas and myriad scents of Thai cooking, the subtlety of the French and Lebanese or the Turkish dishes but nothing compares to the Pakistani cuisine. Forget the high sounding stuff; ghar ka khana (homemade food) no matter which strata are you from is difficult to find elsewhere (except India of course).
Whether it is a simple Tandoor ki Roti with Achaar or Palak (in the Punjab) or the intricate Biryani with ingredients and spices of all hues, the food is out of this world. In my house, we were used to at least ten different rice dishes (steamed white rice/saada/green peas/vegetable/channa/choliya/potato Pilau), three types of Biryanis (Sindhi, Hyderabadi, Dilli or just our cook’s hybridized Punjabi version), and my grandmother’s recipe of Lambi Khichdee. The list continues.
In the Northern areas, there are Chinese-Pakistani concoctions, in the North West Frontier there is meat in its most tender and purest form. In Balochistan there is Sajji, meat grilled in earthenware at low heat until all the juices have transformed the steaks into a magic delight. And, the fruits and the sweets – the mangoes that come in dozens of varieties and colours, melons of different sizes, the pomegranates and the wild berries that still grow despite the pollution everywhere!
How could I not love this eclectic cuisine?
…the sum-total of all five: I love Pakistan as this is my identity – immutable and irreversible. Simple.
The genesis of this post.
I am averse to the ratings and rankings that characterize the junk-journalism of our times. Much like the embedded style of reporting such a view remains partial and often ignorant of the nuances and layers of subtext that are almost unachievable in the pop-view of the world.
Readers might question this apparent paradox as on the one hand I am participating in this top-five series and on the other I am also being critical. Well, well this is kosher from a South Asian perspective as we remain a mythical-modern bundle of contradictions.
The real reason for me to ‘submit’ my top 5 is the inquiring spirit of Mayank Austen Soofi whom I don’t know and have never met. But I am quite empathetic to his efforts at understanding Pakistan. At least he ventures into the ‘other’ territory and unlike the mainstream media and writers, does not view Pakistan as a threatening collage of burqa clad women, terrorism and gun toting radicals. Even as he carries out his current obsession, i.e. Pakistan, there are many in the blogosphere who have questioned his motives and alleged deliberate derision of Pakistan and its inhabitants through his writings. Since I do not suffer from this sort of irrational paranoia, I am happy to let him write more on my country. At least there is one alternative voice, one un-clichéd perspective from the other side of the border. Even if my young friend employs a clichéd format in this series, it is better than ‘high writing’ churning more clichés!
Published on May 10, 2007 at 6:56 am Comments (23)